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Just lost my best friend today... I'm in a really bad mood (sigh)

Just lost my best friend today... I'm in a really bad mood (sigh)

It's hard to distance yourself from people that you love but sometimes a third party can cause damage that can't be repaired (sigh). I thought I could handle the insecurity of this person dealing with the fact that I was his best female friend but it appears I was wrong.

The last straw was opening up my Facebook account after telling her to FUCK OFF yesterday and starting my social media day with a nasty-gram.  Don't get me wrong. I love a good diatribe and can deal with a rant or a rave but this missive made me block/report her. Then I had to e-mail my best female friend and hubby to let them know that I was done.

That was the hardest thing I have ever had to do this year...

It made me cry in fucking Starbucks...

Then I got really pissed off because I realized I should have done this a lot sooner. Yeah... this is my WTF moment of the day (LOL).

I'll get over it... eventually... (sigh)



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Comment balloon 2 commentsC Tann-Starr • August 04 2011 09:39AM


Ah honey....I'm sorry. I hope the friendship comes back to life at some point. But it really hurts/stinks now. Shoot....hang in there. I wish I could say something helpful.

Posted by Karen Fiddler, Broker/Owner, Orange County & Lake Arrowhead, CA (949)510-2395 (Karen Parsons-Fiddler, Broker 949-510-2395) over 9 years ago

Thank you, Karen. It really sucks but it's something that I have to do. I'm not into unnecessary bad karma third party drama and wont let someone else define me. I know who and what I am. I happen to like me enough to walk away from a bad situation and that's what the relationship is turning into. We've been inseperable since we were little kids but I'm 46 now. People change and grow apart. Sometimes you don't realize how much until something important comes up that is not handled with respect or care (sigh). It takes a lot for me to repeatedly tell someone to fuck off. She should have given me space when I already made it clear I was pissed. Some people just never learn... So now I'm gone...

Posted by C Tann-Starr (Tann Starr & Associates, Inc.) over 9 years ago

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