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Announcing the "Our Special Place" Center for Special Needs Picnic: Bucks Mill Park, Colts Neck New Jersey

 

Andrew J Lenza wrote a wonderful post I think you may enjoy. I am looking forward to attending this event with the little minions. :-)

 

We're excited to announce the 2nd annual Our Special Place Picnic.  What is "Our Special Place?"

Diagnosis Day -- You Lose Your Breathour special place matawan nj

On April 19, 2004, our youngest son was diagnosed with autism. At the time I reached out to a dear friend from Wall Street who shared a prescient view: "Once you get your son squared away, you and Liz are going to help a lot of people."

I dismissed the prediction. We had immediate problems: teaching "E" to talk, use the toilet, dress himself, make eye contact, share, take turns, understand life and death, love, overcome frustration, regulate with others, engage with people for the love of social connection.

A neuro-typical child learns how to function organically. A special needs child must be taught step-by-step. I estimate that "E" and I have spent 800 hours learning how to cross a street.

Genesis of Our Special Place

Needless to say that to teach an impaired child how to join civilization is an intensive mission.  It wears on the pysche and the checkbook. Each day, Liz and I and a host of therapists and professionals instructed "E" on mundane tasks and gradually increased the sophistication of his newly acquired world view. We knew of other boys who shared the same issues. Eventually, we brought the boys together in our basement for a social group. They met a few days a week for over a year.liz osp

The Shake in the Middle of the Night

One night Liz shook me awake.

"We need to help more kids," she said.  "These kids need their own place to go. I want to open a non profit for special needs children. You're a Realtor. Go find me office space."

So Liz and Dawn Fittipaldi, O.S.P.'s Executive Director (who has a twenty year resume with the GRACE Foundation), started the legal process. A year later the Internal Revenue Service approved Our Special Place as a registered 501(c)-3 non-profit organization.

Last year Liz, Dawn and their intrepid volunteers raised almost $25,000.

The Board decided to raffle off free tuition to four of the thirty families that come to O.S.P. Liz and Dawn also announced an across-the-board cut in tuition by 20%.

Liz donates on average 20 hours a week to O.S.P. and families with special needs. She does not draw a salary. The Lenza family has not -- nor ever will -- make one dollar off autism.

Who is "Our?"

Liz (and Dawn) is often referred to as the Founder of O.S.P.

Liz is quick to correct: "O.S.P. was founded by four little boys who didn't know the odds were stacked against them when we started, that only 10% of children with autism get jobs as adults, only 5% live independently, and less than 1% get married and raise children."

We're blessed. God blessed "E" with an indefatigable spirit.  Our son now knows he has autism. He's asked if he'll get married and father children. "E" is considered higher functioning. One day while we were driving to the center he opined that "we named O.S.P. wrong. It should be called My Special Place because I started it."

We've added humility to the list of things "E" needs to work on. 

Picnic Information -- 2nd Annual Fundraiserbucks mill park colts neck

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    • Sunday, June 27th from 2PM to 6PM
    • Bucks Mill Fairgrounds, Colts Neck NJ
    • Food, live music, face painting, games and raffles!
    • Call (732) 765-8500 for further details.

Our Special Place is located at 62 Broad Street, Matawan NJ 07747.

Upcoming Course Schedule

  • Spring Session (meets one hour for eight weeks)
  • Summer Camp (meets Tuesday & Thursday from 2PM to 4PM for 6 weeks)
  • Applied Behavioral Analysis ABA (onsite and home-based instructional)
  • Kids Club
  • Me & My Mom
  • Cooking Creations
  • Cool Crafts
  • Fitness & Fun
  • Yoga & Wellness
  • Sibling Success
  • Pals at Play
  • Let's Be Social

Our Special Place (“O.S.P.”) was started by the Fittipaldi and Lenza families and is a registered non-profit charitable organization under the IRS 501(c)-3 code. Our mission is to enrich the lives of children with special needs by providing a variety of professional services in a nurturing and therapeutic environment. 

 We are mothers and fathers. Daughters and sons.  Sisters and brothers.  Friends and therapists. Most of all we are special children.

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Comment balloon 7 commentsC Tann-Starr • May 20 2010 04:06PM

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That is a heart=warming story, Carolyn.  Have a great time with Andrew, Liz, "E" & the minions - hey, maybe you guys could make some music while your're there!  "ALE & the Minions"  ^_^

Posted by Maria Morton, Kansas City Real Estate 816-560-3758 (Chartwell Kansas City Realty) about 8 years ago

Amazing fortitude and amazing love seems be the fuel.    Many people will be blessed by this undertaking by the Lenzas and all.    May God bless them.

Posted by Connie King about 8 years ago

They are going a great work for the wee people. My quirky kids will get a kick out of this. :-)

Posted by C Tann-Starr (Tann Starr & Associates, Inc.) about 8 years ago

Great post!

Posted by Joshua Zargari, MJ Decorators Workshop (MJ Decorators Workshop LI staging and home decorating) about 8 years ago

Joshua, thank you.  Andrew did an excellent job. :-)

Posted by C Tann-Starr (Tann Starr & Associates, Inc.) about 8 years ago

Thanks for the re-blog, C :-)

You're coming? We'd love to see the Minion parade. Call me if you're going to take the drive down.

Posted by Andrew J. Lenza (Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage) about 8 years ago

We are definitely coming and I will call you before we leave. This is going to be fun. :-)

Posted by C Tann-Starr (Tann Starr & Associates, Inc.) about 8 years ago

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