C Tann-Starr's Outside Blog

head_left_image

The Gift Of Rainmaking

Carolyn Tann-Starr 2009

Noah E Starr

The Gift Of Rainmaking is a curious thing. Yesterday I asked for help because I needed it. You guys responded in spades and I'd like to take a moment to thank each and every one of you who came to my emotional rescue. Today, I got a fun little e-mail from someone who apparently does not believe I needed or need help. How on earth could I have given you such an erroneous impression? Was it something I said? I don't remember ever saying anything about me knowing everything. There is a lot that I don't know and I learn something new every single day. That's why I don't pretend to be something that I am not and/or use any description(s) to make others believe I am better than I really am. I don't have two years in as a Realtor yet and it appears some of you need to be reminded of that little fact (LOL). I want you to know that I did very much need the help I asked for. I still do and probably will always need help. :-)

The ActiveRain Real Estate Network is a great source of help and usually the first place I turn to get my answers. Where else can you ask a question and get a response in your In-box just as fast (if not faster) than advice in a Twitter stream? (LOL) My bay-bays are live 24/7.When the brick and mortars close, the Rainmakers are still available and in play. I don't have to wait for a firm's business hours. I can get a response 3 AM if I post something. How cool is that? Very! :-)

If you think people do not cultivate the collective wisdom of Twitter members on a subject you are truly sadly mistaken and missing out on a lot of fun wisdom to boot (LOL). ActiveRain is unique in that it doesn't have the limitations of a micro-blogged answer, yet it has the same immediate ability to get you what you need if you use it wisely. Regarding wisecracking on my posts and/or all other distracting points aside, I told the truth when I said I had never set eyes on what I was asking for and only knew to ask for it because the bank asked me for it. When your client's need is at stake you should never remain silent if you don't know the answer. You should ask everybody you know who may be able to help you.To be esteemed less for asking a question fascinates me... You've inspired this post (LOL).

I placed my request before all of cyberspace because I did not know who would read it or where the answer would come from. Guess what? The bank responded. The firm hosting the listing agent responded. Club Chaos responded. Lawyers responded. Yet, a few people unsubscribed from me because they thought less of me for writing that post. Oh well... thank you for letting me know and thank you for your e-mail. I'd write it again if it meant my buyer obtaining a $384K home for $263K.

You only get one shot at an REO. The bank either says yes or the bank says no. When the bank calls, you need to listen, get your butt in gear and give them exactly what they ask for. To not do so in a timely manner harms your client's best interests. I will not slack in that respect. I want my buyers to get what they want. Happy buyers give happy referrals (LOL).

The Gift of Rainmaking lies in it's ability to shower the world with knowledge freely shared so that other bloggers like me can do a good job and grow. It's my personal think tank where I share, play, rant, rave, teach, toy and get my job done. If you don't get that by now then you may never get it.

While playing in the Rain, don't ever be afraid to admit there is something that you don't know or that you need help with. Talking with the members here will make you better in so many respects because we don't just talk real estate. Life lessons flow in every exchange and you can cultivate the wisdom of 156,302 members if you want to. Some of you think that I don't do my job because I like to play while I work. Well, I have news for you, it is permissible and it depends upon the client. Some people can't wait to meet my kids while others wont hire me because I am not always available and make no bones about the fact that my family comes first in all things. Regardless of that fact, my job is to get my buyers in the homes of their choice (with or without my kids in tow), and not to sit around branding myself as "an expert" or be looked down upon because I am not afraid to admit I  don't know where the friggin' forms are (LOL).

I got what I needed because people respond to honesty. If you don't know, then you don't know. Why lie about it and secretly hunt for something when you can simply tell the truth and openly ask? What if you secretly hunt for something and select the wrong format or form that harms the project?

Never be afraid to ask for help. EVER. The right professional will come to your rescue if you put it out there you need to be rescued. That's why they are professionals. They rise to the occasion not because they have to, but because they want to. Some because they love what they do and will not always demand to be paid first for a little information. That, in sum and substance, is the caliber of people who blog here. Their ability to share their many talented gifts of Rainmaking make the Rain what it is.

That's why AR rocks. There is nothing like it and I have no intention of going anywhere because Club Chaos is my virtual home and I love my bay-bays. If you don't like my blog feel free to stop reading and commenting on it. That includes sending writers worthless e-mails about why you are unsubscribing. Don't whine. Just do it. I don't mind. I'd write if I only had one reader. I enjoy blogging here. I know a good thing when I see it. This is a great thing. You may want to remember that the next time you feel the need to be negative to a newbie in any profession. If you want to unsubscribe, please feel free to do so without sending me any more diatribes. I do like to answer my e-mails in public every so often. You never know what you may get (LOL). I might decide to make you a star on my blog post. Seriously. :-)

 

Disclaimer: Any comments and contributions provided on ActiveRain.com (or other electronic or print media) does not establish an agency relationship with any third party. Blog posts are intended to be informational only. Please be advised that real estate practices vary in regions and from state to state and market to market. The information contained herein does not constitute legal advice. All parties in need of legal, accounting, tax, or real estate guidance are directed to consult with the licensed professional of their choice. Please seek specific guidance from a retained professional in the specific field(s) required to service your interests. I and/or team blog writers make no claims, promises or guarantees about the accuracy, completeness, or adequacy of the information contained in or linked to this web site and its associated sites inclusive of but not limited to CarolynTannStarr.com MySpace/TannStarr 46486 NY Working Moms Examiner ActiveRain Group Club Chaos ClubChaosAgents.com CyberMinions.net CTannStarr Outside Blog CTannStarr Localism Blog TannStarr.net UberMental.com

© Carolyn Tann-Starr, 2008-2015. Unauthorized use and/or duplication of this material without express and written permission from the re-blog authors (when appropriate)and Carolyn Tann-Starr is strictly prohibited. Excerpts and links may be used, provided that full and clear credit is given to Carolyn Tann-Starr, (the re-blog authors when appropriate) and Wordy C's Blog with appropriate and specific direction to the original content.

 

Carolyn Tann-Starr Outside Blog Outside Blog Minion Report on Facebook Carolyn Tann-Starr on Blogger  CTannStarr on Twitter Tann Starr on YouTube TannStarr.net

Tann Starr on iTunes

Tann Starr on IMDb

Kim Harrison  Vicki Pettersson  Jocelynn Drake  Jaye Wells  Amy DeZellar  Lynn Rush  Jeannie Holmes

Ward Nasse Gallery

Kendall Grey  Jeaniene Frost  Faith Hunter  Stacia Kane  Sherry Soule

Alicia Anderson: Touched By People Places and Things

CarolynTannStarr.com

Tann Starr on Amazon.com

Life With Wee People

Outside Blog Minion Report

MySpace

Ask me something...

Tann Starr on Jango Music

Tann Starr on Blip.fm

Felix Lipov, Official Photographer, Ambassadors of Chaos

 

 

 

Comment balloon 25 commentsC Tann-Starr • August 21 2009 07:59AM

Comments

You rock!  I love how honest and open you are and how you aren't afraid to reveal the real you.  Stay being and keep doing just like you are.  I especially like it when you let people have it...that's my evil side showing!  I'm glad you got the help you needed.  Those subscribers you lost?  Doesn't sound like much of a loss to me at all!

Posted by Sharon Tara, New Hampshire Home Stager (Sharon Tara Transformations) about 9 years ago

AR is a community of fellow professionals ready to assist others. I am here to serve. Congrats!

Posted by Harry F. D'Elia, Investor , Mentor, GRI, Radio, CIPS, REOs, ABR (Real Estate and Beyond, LLC) about 9 years ago

This is a wonderful post, from the heart and beautifully written. You are my kind of person! I'm subscribing to your blog right now and would be honored if you'd accept me as an associate.

Posted by Leslie Helm, Real Estate For Trail Riders (Tennessee Recreational Properties) about 9 years ago

C - You have it going on!  And just for the record ... the best of the brightest are considered as such because the know what they don't know.  And anyone that tries to fake it is just ... well, let's just say they aren't helping anyone.  Not even themselves.

I'm glad you got your dilemma taken care of.  The REO business has become such a nightmare and the banks are not genuinely cooperative about 95% of the time.

The folks here on AR are the absolute best of the best - in all ways.  What one person doesn't know, someone else will and gladly shares.  It's 'family' at its best.

Way to go, kiddo!  Now get back on that beach before summer is done!

Posted by Carol Smith (Casmi Photography) about 9 years ago

C...

OMG ...did I miss something? I have to go back and find out what this is all about.

Posted by Richard Weisser, Richard Weisser Retired Real Estate Professional (Richard Weisser Realty) about 9 years ago

C, I just read your help post, and I'm glad you got what you needed!  This is an amazing place!

Posted by Patricia Kennedy, Home in the Capital (RLAH Real Estate) about 9 years ago

Thank you, Sharon.

Thank you, Harry.

Thank you, Leslie. I would be very honored to be an associate of yours. Wishing you the very best in all things. Regards, Carolyn.

Thank you Carol. I really do appreciate your kind words. :-)

Richard, it's about me refusing to budge from my fax machine until the bank received every piece of required documentation. That resulted in me being late to play with my friends and family here. Hubby and I had to take separate cars to visit with EEK. My beach buyer was there and we had a blast. I didn't take my client home until 12:40 AM. I walked in after 1 (LOL). Mikey was playing World of Warcraft waiting up for me. It was a very productive day. I got a lot of work done between playtime and scheduled all of my appointments for the weekend while at my outside beach office yesterday  (LOL).The geeks are hooking up again tonight. EEK said I can film a live stream. This should be interesting. We're going to be making music at her place. The little minions also have a playdate with her small Yorkie.

Patricia, an amazing place indeed. :-)

Posted by C Tann-Starr (Tann Starr & Associates, Inc.) about 9 years ago

C --- I have been away for several days due to a "little set-back" --- nothing serious, just chest pains. --Everything is good and I'm back -- so, I missed your request for help post.  Sorry I missed it, but glad you got your answer.  I love your post ---

Mama Liz's Signature

Posted by Liz Loadholt, Realtor--Broker-in-charge - Trainer--Relocation Director Covering SC (Liz Loadholt- AgentOwned Realty- Covering SC) about 9 years ago

Liz, I am glad that you are feeling better. Was just at your blog and got all caught up. Take time for yourself, sweetie. Very important that you relax and take care of your health. :-)

Posted by C Tann-Starr (Tann Starr & Associates, Inc.) about 9 years ago

There is no better place to ask for help and get advice.....you gotta love these people.

Are you still beaching it?  I just arrived and am hoping to get some great eye candy!

Posted by Ann Allen Hoover, CDPE SRES ASP e-PRO Realtor - Homes for Sale - AL (RE/MAX Advantage South) about 9 years ago

We are still beaching it (LOL). We're having a picnic tomorrow morning with a bunch of brick and mortars and a couple of Rainers. Looking forward to it. I hope the weather holds up. We're having a thunderstorm right now. :-)

Posted by C Tann-Starr (Tann Starr & Associates, Inc.) about 9 years ago

Woman, are you still at the beach?  I've been so busy this week I have hardly been online at all.  I've speed read through about 5 of your posts and there are cute little boys on the beach, cute ladies feet on the beach, some mention of floatation devices in string bikinis.... what exactly is this type of vacation?  lol!  I hope you had or are still having a wonderful time. 

Posted by Susan Mangigian, Chester & Delaware County Homes, Delaware and Ches (RE/MAX Preferred, West Chester, PA, RS152252A) about 9 years ago

Mangigly the I-Talian!!! I love you! Too funny. It's my new outdoor office. I have a thing for wifi (LOL). Been setting up all over the place. Gal pal has a condo two blocks off the ocean. How could I not blog there? See my Windy Office? Very nice terrace to park my bloggers butt when I am not laid out on her floor doing my thing. I learned about the sun spot from you, remember? It's a Susan Mangigian JJ tradition beach minion style (LMAO) ;-)

Posted by C Tann-Starr (Tann Starr & Associates, Inc.) about 9 years ago

Half the time I don't understand you, but the half I do understand is so on point.

Posted by Sally Dunbar, Fair Oaks Realtor - Fair Oaks Homes for Sale (Lyon Real Estate, Fair Oaks CA (Sacramento Area)) about 9 years ago

ROTFL @ Sally. You sound like my Mom on that one (LOL). My friends usually say various versions of, "When you explain this do me a favor and give me the version that wont cross my eyes, okay?" (LMAO)

Posted by C Tann-Starr (Tann Starr & Associates, Inc.) about 9 years ago

LOL What a great post! I, too, missed the call for advice but isn't that the great thing about AR? Always somebody there to add their .02! I feel sorry for the folks who think you don't bring value to their table! I may have 30 years in the biz but your social media skills are lightyears ahead of mine and I always learn something from you! We can't be all things to all people so who cares. Just bring what you can bring and I'll do the same!

Posted by SarahGray Lamm, Realtor - 100K Hours of NC Real Estate Experience (Allen Tate Realtors Chapel Hill, NC 919-819-8199 ) about 9 years ago

SarahGray, thank you for your kind words. They are very much appreciated. It's very true and we should all just bring what we can to the table and work together to get the job done. :-)

Posted by C Tann-Starr (Tann Starr & Associates, Inc.) about 9 years ago

There will always be snide people that feel the need to gripe when you need help. No matter how long you are in this business, you will never know it all and neither will anyone else. I have no fear in asking for help when I need, and I do ask for advice quite often.

Posted by JL Boney, III, Columbia, SC Real Estate (Coldwell Banker) about 9 years ago

There is that... JL, I guess some people have to make themselves feel better one way or the other, even at the expense of someone else. I think it is a poor choice to do it when a person is seeking help. Oh well... I am happy I got my stuff in. Now we sit and wait for the bank... :-)

Posted by C Tann-Starr (Tann Starr & Associates, Inc.) about 9 years ago

Hi C - great post as always.  I saw your AR 9-1-1 go up the other day.....if I'd had the answer, I totally would have responded...at the same time I just knew you'd end up getting what you needed.....I'm just blown away you got it as fast as you did!

 

You ROCK, woman!  :)

Posted by Coleen DeGroff, Haile Plantation Real Estate - Gainesville FL (eXp Realty) about 9 years ago

Hi C: You know, if I was up at 3 AM and you needed an answer to a question, I'd give it to you! But I can't stay awake past 9 PM. And let's not even talk about the 3-hour time difference between us.

sacramento short sale agent

Posted by Elizabeth Weintraub Sacramento Real Estate Agent, Top 1% of Lyon Agents, Put 40 years of experience to work for you (Lyon Real Estate) about 9 years ago

C - Great post!  I appreciate you sincerity and the real emotion!  You are right ... AR is a wonderful resource and you did just as you should n... tap into the collective mind that we all are!  Good job!  Great Example!

Posted by Lisa Wetzel, CDPE, SFR carsonvalleyland.com (RE/MAX Realty Affiliates) about 9 years ago

Coleen, thank you. Rainers are mad cool. I got 18 calls the same day and a bunch of interesting e-mail. :-)

LOL @ Elizabeth. Sometimes I forget about the time difference. I think I called someone at 7AM the other day. They didn't mind but I did when I realized I made a boo boo. Thank goodness for understanding friends. :-)

Thank you, Lisa. :-)

Posted by C Tann-Starr (Tann Starr & Associates, Inc.) about 9 years ago
Feb13 cdason You don't? It's caelld British Dry Humor.Faiez Samsung is a crappy brand.foongpc Deadly indeed! LOL!jemima What's Mel gotta do with this?markiekadus Have to give points for creativity though.Amy C Ya bah!tihtahpah What am I getting for Mel? That's between Mel I, for now. sheela Why you ask?emelda No way I'll get that for you. Alv0808 Deadly indeed!carol I don't think anyone will like it. LOL!daniel c aka U' Ya man! Hahahaha!Daniel Ng Chill la dude, don't be too sensitive. Dead is inevitable to us all. xin If you put it that way! Nick Phillips Ya man, best getting a couple package. LOL!massy That's pretty ballsy of ya. AngelBear OooOoo I can sense the anger. Chill lah.vienne True true. However, to some people, it is considered a taboo. I believe that most of these sensitive folks do not want to face reality and prefer to be ignorant on the subject.
Posted by Besi over 6 years ago
zgTz2G rfcbwgsatjlh
Posted by wgrqgp over 6 years ago

Participate